When we meet the right person to love,
when we're at the right place at the right time, that's chance.
When you meet someone you're attracted to,
that's not a choice.
That's chance.
Being caught up in a moment (and there are a lot
of couples whoget together because of this) is not a choice.
That's also a chance.
The difference is what happens afterwards.
When will you take that infatuation, that crush,
that mind-blowing attraction to the next level?
That's when all sanity goes back, you sit down
and contemplate whether you want to make this into a concrete
relationship or just a fling.
If you decide to love a person, even with his/her
faults, that's not a chance.
That's choice.
When you choose to be with a person, no matter
what, that's choice.
Even if you know there are many people out there
who are more attractive, smarter, and richer than your mate,
and yet, you decide to love your mate just the same,
that's choice.
Infatuation, crushes, and attraction come to us
by chance.
But true love that lasts is truly a choice.
A choice that we make.
Regarding soulmates, there's a beautiful movie
quote that I believe is so true about this:
"Fate brings you together,
but it's still up to you to make it happen."
I believe that soulmates do exist, that there is
truly someone made for you. But it's still up to you
to make the choice if you're going to do something
about it or not.
We may meet our soulmates by chance, but loving
and staying with our soulmate is still a choice we have to make.
We came to the world not by finding someone
perfect to love,
BUT to learn how to love an imperfect person
perfectly. =)
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You In Love With Someone?
When you are together with that special someone,
you pretend to ignore that person.
But when that special someone is not around, you
might look around to find them.
At that moment, you are in love.
Although there is someone else who always
makes you laugh,
your eyes and attention might go only to that
special someone.
Then, you are in love.
Although that special someone was supposed to
have called you long back, to let you know of
their safe arrival,
your phone is quiet.
You are desperately waiting for the call!
At that moment, you are in love.
If you are much more excited for one short e-
mail from that special someone than other many
long e-mails,
you are in love.
When you find yourself as one who cannot erase
all the messages in your answering machine because
of one message from that special someone,
you are in love.
When you get a couple of free movie tickets, you
would not hesitate to think of that special someone.
Then, you are in love.
You keep telling yourself, "that special someone
is just a friend", but you realize that you can
not avoid that person's special attraction. At
that moment, you are in love.
While you are reading this page, if someone
appears in your mind,
then u are in love with that person.
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when you love someone how do you prove that
you love that person?
how can you make some one realize that you are
willing to do anything for him/her?
when you say i love you do you mean it when you
say it?
when you have fallen in love with someone how
can you fall out of love with that person?
how can you make the person understand what
you feel if the person is not talking to you?
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hair highlights that i wanted to get wayyy before. my mom told me i look like a multi colored chicken, and i kinda agreed with her. also, i had my eye brows plucked. 
it was about 1am then. yup. i miss kitkat.
fashion heroes that is.
